This week, I decided I was going to get my life together. Not in the dramatic, buy-a-new-planner-and-become-a-completely-different-person-by-Monday kind of way. I was being reasonable about it. Mature, even. The sort of woman who has finally[…]
Category: Truth Mercenary
You Have a Complicated Relationship With Your Own Good Ideas
I have a complicated relationship with my own good ideas. We get along beautifully in the beginning. My brain produces something brilliant, I get excited, and for a few glorious moments, I feel like the[…]
Sometimes we’re so desperate to make something uncomfortable go away that we’ll keep doing that very thing, making it worse.
Gracie Lou has a problem. Actually, she has several, but the one currently running her life is Atopic Dermatitis. She’s been to the vet. She’s on medication. Her underbelly is healing nicely. We’re making progress.[…]
Something Happened at a Gainesville Car Dealership
For twenty years, I had prepared her for the moment the world came for her. I just didn’t expect to be there when it happened.
The Books Are Waiting for Me to Get My Sh*t Together
There are books all over my house. Not in a charming, intellectual, Look at me, I own a chaise lounge and understand French cinema sort of way. They’re just… everywhere. Books on shelves. Books on[…]
Interstate Theology
The day a thunderstorm, an exploding transformer, and my own fear taught me the most important lesson about courage—and writing.
Hot Doctor Syndrome and the Collapse of Dignity
Nothing prepares you for realizing your worst vulnerability also has excellent bone structure.
Peace Doesn’t Come From Knowing
It comes from no longer demanding certainty before you’re willing to live.
Home Depot Isn’t a Store. It’s a Museum of Incomplete Lives.
Every aisle is another funeral for a version of yourself that never made it home.
The 4th of July Is a Sensory Hunger Games for People Who Own Advil and Boundaries
At 50, freedom hits different when your nervous system has entered witness protection
