🤑𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘’𝗦 𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗧𝗢 𝗚𝗘𝗧 𝗙𝗔𝗧 𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗖𝗞𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗖𝗔𝗦𝗛 𝗪𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗘 𝗣𝗢𝗟𝗔𝗥𝗜𝗭𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗗𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗠 𝗖𝗟𝗜𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 𝗧𝗢 𝗙𝗢𝗟𝗟𝗢W YOU

I ADORE the Golden Girls.

Got every season on DVD + the Lifetime Intimate Portraits of each golden lady.

Each one of those heady broads represent a part of my personality.

And if you love them, they probably represent a part of you, too.

But in all my years of watching Dorothy, Sophia, Blanche and Rose I never got the feeling they’d trade who they were for being liked.

Especially Sophia.

She didn’t dilute herself to fit in.

She’d tell you where to go and what to do with yourself.

Here’s the thing-

You know all the nice-nice you’re playing online?

The “pretending I’m interested in getting to know you” crap?

When all you REALLY want is to keep your mortgage paid and not have to decide between feeding your kids or keeping the lights on?

It isn’t working (and you already know that).

Not really.

You might get a few nibbles.

But you aren’t showing the world anything new or spectacular about yourself or your business.

And the world can see it.

I mean, of COURSE you want to help people.

Except that you aren’t.

Because you’re too busy blending in that you don’t stand out.

So what should you do about it?

𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐁𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘, 𝐁𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐇𝐎𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅. LIke I just said, the entire reason you’re not getting noticed is that there’s nothing special about you.

Nothing you’re showing us, anyway.

And that’s because you’re scared to death that you’ll be judged.

Guess what?

You’ll be judged anyway!

It happens to all of us. The trick is to give them something WORTHY of judging!

That means that ALL of your content should be brutally you.

And if anyone doesn’t like it, they need to take a HIKE!

You will NEVER please everyone and you shouldn’t try. That’s the WORST thing you could do.

You want to find out exactly who’s your ride or die and who’s going to get offended at the first opinion you cough up.

TAKE A STAND OVER YOUR MESSAGING AND BACK IT UP WITH YOUR VOICE.

𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐁𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐇𝐎𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐌.

That’s right, you’re not the only one in the hot seat here. It’s time to call out your audience.

Make them accountable for their mundane lives. Don’t let them pull out the excuses.

If you’re in business to lead then LEAD!

Guess what happens when you do?

You’ll get a ton of people raving hot mad, folding their arms and temper-tango-ing their way out of your life.

GREAT NEWS!!!!! You now have space for the dream clients!

𝐂𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐍 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐃𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐌 𝐂𝐋𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒.

These are the beautiful souls who dig you, dig your business and WANT you to tell them like it is.

They WANT to know they’re following someone who can lead them to the freedom to say what they feel, stake a claim in the ground and proclaim themselves the masters of their own universe (HE-MAN, anyone?)

BUT-

None of this can happen if you don’t find the courage and support to step forward and stand on that ledge- alone if you have to- in order to be seen.

Because when you stand for something, you teach others how to treat you.

And they will treat you EXACTLY the way you tell them to treat you.

So how about we start with having them treat you like the ICE COLD warrior QUEEN that you already are?